Culture Shock is Real: 7 Everyday Things That Might Surprise You in Texas

Moving to Texas? Get ready, because it’s not just the landscape that’s different—it’s the little things. From the way people talk to where they buy their groceries, daily life here has its own rhythm, quirks, and traditions. And while some of it might make you smile, others might leave you thinking, “Wait… is this normal here?”

For anyone relocating to Texas, especially from out of state, the culture shock is real. But it’s also what makes living here so memorable. These everyday surprises give you a genuine glimpse into how Texans live, shop, socialize, and show pride in their communities.

Let’s dive into some of the fun, unexpected things that might catch you off guard once you’re unpacked and settling into your new Texas life.

Drive-Thru Everything

Yes, Texas is car-dependent—but it goes beyond commuting. Almost everything has a drive-thru option here. You’ll find the obvious fast-food chains of course, but also coffee stands that rival your favorite boutique café, pharmacies where you can pick up a prescription without stepping out of your car, banks that offer full service through a tube system, and even liquor stores with drive-thru windows.

Some areas even have drive-thru beer barns where you literally drive into a building and someone loads your cooler into the car. For busy families, professionals, or anyone trying to avoid the summer heat, it’s incredibly convenient—and very Texan.

People Really Are That Polite

One of the first things newcomers notice is how polite everyone is. Strangers will greet you with a “ma’am” or “sir” without a second thought, and it’s completely normal to be called “darlin’” at the grocery store or complimented in line at the post office. Politeness isn’t just good manners here—it’s part of the culture.

Holding doors, waving at neighbors, saying hello when you pass someone on a walk—it’s all just part of daily life. It might feel over-the-top at first if you're coming from a place where people keep to themselves, but you’ll find yourself smiling more and maybe even saying “y’all” before you know it.

The Accents are Real—and They Vary

You’ve probably heard a Texas accent before, but what you may not expect is just how much it varies across the state. In East Texas, the accent is slower and softer. In West Texas, it’s a little more rugged. In urban areas like Austin and Dallas, the accent might not be as strong, but you'll still hear the familiar drawl slip through when someone’s feeling passionate.

You'll also pick up on phrases that are uniquely Texan—things like “fixin’ to,” “might could,” or “bless your heart” (which, depending on the tone, can be a compliment or a warning). It’s part of the charm and a reminder that Texas is big enough to have mini cultures within itself.

Church Isn’t Just on Sundays

Faith plays a big role in many Texas communities, and churches are often at the center of local life. You’ll see church signs on nearly every corner, especially in smaller towns, and it’s common for people to talk openly about their faith.

Community events, support networks, and even business meetups often have ties to local churches. It’s not unusual to hear people mention their church family in everyday conversation. Whether you’re religious or not, it helps to understand how deeply rooted faith is here—it’s a key part of how many Texans connect with each other.

Football is Practically a Religion

If you think people are passionate about professional sports, wait until you experience Texas high school football. In many towns, Friday nights revolve around stadium lights, marching bands, and entire communities coming together to support their team.

College football is just as intense, especially when the Longhorns or Aggies are playing. Game day isn’t just a time—it’s a lifestyle. From tailgating to team spirit gear, football season in Texas has an energy that feels like a mix between a festival and a family reunion. Even if you’re not a sports fan, it’s hard not to get swept up in the excitement.

Grocery Stores Have a Fan Base

Believe it or not, people in Texas are fiercely loyal to their grocery stores—and H-E-B is the undisputed king. If you’ve never been to one, H-E-B is more than just a place to buy groceries. It’s a local legend, known for its fresh products, friendly staff, and community involvement.

People genuinely rave about their favorite items and will go out of their way to shop there. In places where H-E-B isn’t available yet, you’ll often hear people complaining or counting down the days until one opens. It’s not just about convenience—it’s about pride.

And if you’re coming from somewhere with Kroger, Safeway, or Trader Joe’s, you’ll quickly notice how personal the grocery experience feels in Texas.

State Pride is Everywhere

Texans love Texas. You’ll see the state flag flying proudly, bumper stickers shaped like Texas, apparel with state outlines, and local businesses proudly incorporating “Texas” into their names. It’s not just patriotism—it’s a deep love for the land, history, and identity.

Even transplants eventually start feeling it. Whether it’s the food, the music, the scenery, or the independence, there’s a sense of pride here that’s contagious. And once you start feeling it yourself, you’ll understand why it’s so easy to fall in love with this state.

Culture shock is part of the relocation experience—but in Texas, it’s the good kind. These little surprises add flavor and personality to everyday life.

They help you settle in, laugh a little, and feel like you’re not just moving to a new state, but discovering a whole new way of living. The drive-thrus, the manners, the accents, the football, the grocery store obsessions—they’re all part of what makes Texas, Texas.

If you're planning a move and want more than just help finding a house—if you want the real scoop on what it's like to live here—I'd love to be your guide.

Reach out and let’s make your transition to Texas feel like home from day one!

Post written by Michael Stephens from Living Local Texas.